Carolyn Hax

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DEAR CAROLYN: My friend is getting married. It started with the idea of having a small ceremony in the park, going to her place afterward for dinner. Later we would put our children to bed under a baby-sitter’s care and go out to a club to dance.

Carolyn Hax

Then it changed into something bigger — rustic setting with bridesmaids but still a bit casual. Now it has blown into a big fancy place with matching outfits for bridesmaids. All seven bridesmaids have families with kids and are now required to have the same color dresses and professional makeup.

My family is on one income and the expenses come up to over $1,000. How can I get out of it without hurting her feelings or breaking my bank (or robbing a bank)?

M.

DEAR M.: People talk about “wedding markup” mostly with respect to vendors.

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Source:: The Mercury News – Lifestyle

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